I love the fall season! Growing up in Michigan, I had lots of opportunities to take in the stunning beauty of autumn leaves and to breathe in the crisp, refreshing air. It still makes me smile to think of my husband raking leaves into a huge pile and watching our son stretch out his arms and fall backwards into that amazing multi-colored mountain.
November invites us into a season of reflection and gratitude. For Christians navigating the demands of daily life, this month offers a sacred pause—a chance to recalibrate our hearts toward thanksgiving and reconnect with the faithfulness of God. While the year winds down and busyness threatens to overwhelm, November whispers a gentle reminder: there is always reason to rejoice. Let’s explore why this month deserves our love and attention.
1. We devote this month to gratitude.
November places thanksgiving at its heart, calling us to count our blessings intentionally. Paul instructs us to “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). This isn’t mere positive thinking—it’s a spiritual discipline that transforms our perspective. When we cultivate gratitude, we shift our focus from what we lack to the abundance God has already provided. Elisabeth Elliot wisely said, “The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances.” November challenges us to find contentment right where we are.
2. We see the beauty of transition.
November’s landscape teaches us about the grace found in seasons of change. The trees don’t cling desperately to their leaves; they release them in a stunning display of trust. Similarly, we can learn to surrender what we’re holding too tightly. “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). This month reminds us that God is present in every transition, orchestrating beauty even in letting go.
3. There are cozy opportunities for rest.
The shorter days and cooler weather of November practically beg us to slow down. In our productivity-obsessed culture, this is countercultural—and necessary. Jesus himself withdrew regularly to rest and pray. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). November offers permission to light candles, wrap yourself in blankets, and spend unhurried time in God’s presence.
4. We plan for meaningful reflections.
November represents harvest—a time to reflect on what God has grown in our lives throughout the year. Corrie ten Boom once said, “Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.” As we look back, we can trace His faithfulness through every season. What seeds of prayer have blossomed? What character has been refined? This reflection strengthens our faith for whatever lies ahead.
5. We set specific dates when our family and friends come together.
Thanksgiving gatherings create space for genuine connection. “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together” (Hebrews 10:24-25). November reminds us that we weren’t meant to walk this journey alone. Whether around a dinner table or in a small group, these moments of fellowship nourish our souls and reflect the heart of Christian community.
6. We prepare our hearts for Christmas.
November serves as a bridge to Advent, helping us prepare spiritually for celebrating Christ’s birth. This preparation isn’t about to-do lists; it’s about heart posture. As Ann Voskamp beautifully expressed, “Gratitude is the most fruitful form of prayer.” When we practice thanksgiving throughout November, we position ourselves to receive the wonder of Emmanuel—God with us—more fully in December.
Final Challenge
November isn’t just another month on the calendar; it’s an invitation to experience God’s presence in the ordinary, to celebrate His faithfulness in the familiar, and to cultivate hearts overflowing with thanksgiving. The world may rush past these quiet November days, but we don’t have to. Remember, dear friend, God is faithful.
Question: I’d love to hear from you: What’s one way you’re embracing gratitude, transition, rest, or connection this month? Share in the comments below. If the holidays are hard for you, how can I pray for you?
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I’m trying to reconcile trust, gratitude, hope for the future while, now in my own grief of losing my sweet husband… two months ago
Please give me some words of comfort
Still a very difficult time for me
I love Thanksgiving and Christmas but my beautiful best husband in the world passed away October 13th 2024 and he loved Thanksgiving so much
I saw you at a talk at the Wentworth Hotel and your positivity is amazing
I hope some day to have a day when I’m not so sad
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Your emails help
I don’t have a prayer request but I’m thankful for you and your help in navigating life. I pray for you and your son.
Thanks for this reminder, Carol. I am one who needs to be reminded constantly to SLOW DOWN. Otherwise, my body gives out, and I’m unable to fully enjoy anything else about the season.
Thank you Carol,
I enjoy reading your SPIRITUAL writings thank you again.
My Husband of sixty years passed away three years ago a loving devoted man to me and our family, I miss him so
I was at a “ Speak up with confidence” in Sarnia Ontario years ago and loved hearing you speak.
Will PRAY for you and your son.
Blessings
Veronica